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A Beginners Guide To Bedroom Bondage Kits
Bondage is usually the next step couples take in a relationship after they have begun regular sexual intercourse when perhaps they are looking for a bit more excitement. Bondage is nothing to be ashamed of and many couples enjoy it.
There are varying degrees in bondage, from the beginners bedroom bondage right through to hardcore bondage dungeons. It's up to you and your partner how far you take it. Some couples like mild bondage (considering the hardcore bondage to be too seedy for them) whereas other couples find that they are more turned-on by pain, domination and submission.
The further into bondage you get, the more you'll learn what you like and don't like. You'll outgrow beginners toys as they won't be sturdy or rigid enough which is when you'll start looking at leather and metal bondage equipment.
But you don't want to waste money on something you won't enjoy. It's best to start of small, see if you like bondage and then if you do, progress up. Running before you can walk will get you nowhere.
The most cost effective way to get into bondage and to try various aspects is to buy a bondage starter kit. They come in various shapes, sizes, colours and prices and cater for a wide range of beginner curiosities.
I've picked five kits from Honeylicious and showcase some of the best beginner bondage kits available.
Complete Bondage Set
The best place to start with bondage is restraints. Tying your partner up can be a fun way to increase both the sexual pleasure for you and them.
This set comes with:
- Wrist cuffs and straps
- Ankle cuffs and straps
- A waist belt
- A door belt
So what does all that mean? Basically it means you can tie your partner to a door.
The wrist and ankle cuffs restrict the movement of your partner whilst the waist and door belts hold them to the door.
This kit allows you to touch, caress or spank your lover whilst they are restrained. Sexual intercourse may be tricky (though not impossible) and your partner's arms may get tired quickly.
Search Honeylicious for APL001
Price at time of writing: £38.99
Pink Prisoner Kit
A more feminine kit is the Pink Prisoner set. As suggested, the kit itself is pink which may be disconcerting for some men. Nevertheless, colour isn't everything.
This kit contains:
- A pair of fur lined cuffs
- A blindfold
- A feather tickler
Whereas the last kit was more about restraining your partner's body, this one is about restraining their hands and limiting sight. Blindfolding your partner can be exciting for a number of reasons, not least the fact that they cannot see what you are doing t them. This can heighten other senses (although it takes a few goes to get used to not knowing what is happening and to trust your partner).
If you've not experienced being tied up or blindfolded, this is a great set to start with.
Search Honeylicious for MASS34047
Price at time of writing: £19.50
Sexy Slave Kit
This is more or less a combination of the above two kits, although this is intended for bed bondage (i.e. lying down). The kit contains:
- Wrist and ankle cuffs with straps
- A blindfold
- A pleasure feather
If you've got poles at the head and foot of your bed, this is ideal for tying your partner to. If you haven't, you may wish to experiment and see what else you can do - why not tie their wrists together and their ankles together?
The blindfold introduces mystery and excitement into your partner's mind whilst you are playing with them, whilst the feather can introduce light and teasing tickles throughout foreplay, masturbation or sex.
Search Honeylicious for B11048
Price at time of writing: £17.97
Bondage Starter Kit
This product is aimed towards gay couples although it can be used by heterosexual and lesbian couples too.
The kit contains:
- Wrist and ankle cuffs with long straps
- A blindfold
It's worth bearing in mind that as this is aimed towards men, the product should be able to withstand more force than the cheaper kits aimed at everyone. Therefore, it is expected that this kit would last longer than general bondage kits, as it has been designed with restraining men in mind.
The image shows the subject being tied in an upright position though thanks to the long straps, your partner could be tied in various positions: on their back, on their front, doggie-style, etc.
Search Honeylicious for MASS95007
Price at time of writing: £22.49
Purple Cheetah Kit
This is the most expensive of the Top 5 but there is a very good reason: this kit uses PVC restraints rather than fabric restraints. As with all sex toys, the more expensive they are, the longer they should last and the higher the quality they should be.
This kit contains:
- 2 PVC velvet wrist cuffs
- 2 PVC velvet ankle cuffs
- A PVC velvet paddle
- A PVC velvet collar
- A PVC velvet blindfold
- A nylon leash
The box image shows that this kit is ideal for experimenting with the 'hogtied' position (your partner lies on their front, arms behind their back tied to their ankles). You could also tie your partner to the bed or to a chair.
The leash allows you to experiment with domination - lead your partner to the bedroom and spank them with the paddle if they don't listen to you.
This kit offers the most value out of all five kits and offers a little more in the way of an introduction to bondage.
Search Honeylicious for ABS034
Price at time of writing: £55.22
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