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Today I'm reviewing another anal toy from Nexus (care of pleasure2me) called the Nexus O. It differs to your typical male G-spot massager in terms of shape and design so I'm interested to see whether it works or not.
This is what they had to say about the product:
Unusual yes, effective, oh yes yes yes! The Nexus 'O' is a serious silicone innovator thanks to its wonderful three ball design which works to stimulate the G-Spot and perineum whilst providing a secure fit, leaving your hands free to wonder wherever they please! Developed in conjunction with the UK Sex Worker of the Year, the Nexus 'O' works by harnessing the user’s body movements to massage and stimulate the three key areas needed for orgasmic success. Made from phthalate-free, super soft silicone for added comfort and flexibility. For advanced male use only.
The Nexus O arrives in a plastic elliptical tube. The front is black with a cut-away showing the cute and interesting looking Nexus O. We've got the purple one to try out which contrasts nicely against the yellow background.
On the rear of the package you'll find plenty of information about the Nexus O and what it is designed to do.
The first thing to comment on here is how unlike a prostate massager this looks. It looks more like an oversized novelty cock ring than a male G-spot massager but alas, it really is an anal toy! It's unique shape derives from a collaboration with the UK's Sex Worker of the Year which has resulted in this hands-free male G-spot toy.
It's made of a high grade silicone and so has a soft touch and feel as a result. It's fairly flexible although you'd not really have a reason to stretch it too wide.
The design is a "u", "c" or "n" shape depending upon which way around you hold it! It is smooth and consistently sized expect for three bulbs; one at either end and on at the centre. At either end you'll find the perineum ball and the prostate ball whilst the central ball is the secure fit ball.
This non-vibrating silicone anal sex toy is fully enclosed meaning it can be used in the shower or bath as it's waterproof.
The Nexus O is available in purple or black.
This hands-free anal toy relies on a rocking action to stimulate the prostate which is something I first experienced with the Nexus Glide.
The sleeve inside the plastic box contains a set of instructions to get the most out of using the Nexus O. naturally I thought it wise to follow these!
I started off by washing the toy and then coating it in thick water based lube. As it's a silicone toy you should not use silicone based lubricant as it will react with the Nexus O.
It takes a while to insert the toy as your sphincter muscle needs to relax allowing your anus to expand to accommodate this toy. The toy is around three quarters of an inch wide with the balls measuring about 1.25 inches wide.
You insert two balls (the prostate and secure fit balls) into your anus whilst the third ball stays outside placed against your perineum. Once inserted it's advised you relax for 15 minutes to allow your anal canal to become accustomed to the toy. This will differ from person to person and if you've had experience with anal toys then you'll know how long it takes you.
The way to use the toy is then to rock your pelvic area back and forth. This stimulates the prostate and perineum in turn. Depending upon your state of mind and pleasure levels, you may want to masturbate at the same time to get you to the point of orgasm. Just before that point, stop masturbating and rock back and forth to drive you over the edge.
So how did I get on? Frankly, not all that well. I don't think I managed to rock properly as the Nexus O seemed to move with me, rather than rubbing against anything as far as I could tell. I could imagine it working with more practise but this really is a toy for an advanced user.
The rocking action wasn't enough for me and I craved some form of vibration. If Nexus could add vibrations to this, I'd say they were onto a winner with a toy that can be used by beginners (mainly for the vibrations) as well as advanced users (mainly for the rocking).
I could have stopped there but I was determined to find out how else this usual anal sex toy could be used. We came up with a couple of secondary uses.
Firstly, it can be used by women either as a butt plug or even as a double plug. One ball could nestle inside the vagina whilst the other could pop into the anus. I have it on good authority (!) that together with a bit of clitoral stimulation, this feels great.
Secondly, it can be used by men during sex. Pop one ball into your anus and let the Nexus O dangle with the second and third ball facing your testicles. You need to clench tight during sex as the toy weighs just over 100g. This doesn't sound a lot but I felt that if I didn't clench then it was at risk of sliding out. As you thrust in and out of your partner the remainder of the toy rocks against your testicles which feels nice and pleasurable.
Leading on from this, you could use the toy as directed (insert two balls) and use then have sex. That would mean you could focus on sex rather than having to worry about the toy falling out. Instead of masturbating sex would get you to the point of orgasm.
This is packaged as a male sex toy but the Nexus O could be used by women too as a unusual butt plug.
For men, I'd suggest you'd get more from the Nexus O if you're experienced with anal sex toys. The rocking motion required is similar to the Nexus Glide so if you've not tried that (or a non vibrating prostate massager for that matter), I'd advise buying that first then graduate to this.
I'm happy to admit that I'm not advanced enough to enjoy this toy to the max. For me, it's a great butt plug and fantastic during sex as the outer ball knocks against your testicles as you thrust, which I like. As a prostate massager, I couldn't get the hang of it but I could certainly see how an experienced anal toy user could do.
Ultimately, if you've tried non-vibrating prostate massagers before, you'll be able to use this and benefit from it as a standalone toy. If you haven't, I'd suggest trying the Nexus Glide first, then upgrade to this. It's a great toy but you need to know what you're doing to benefit from the unique design and sensations.
The Nexus O is a great toy for use during sex so even if you are a relative beginner, you can still enjoy using the toy for a similar purpose.
Buy the Nexus O from Pleasure2me
Price at time of writing: £35
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